Women Addicted to Being Pregnant-This Is A Severe Psychological Disorder!
82The Phenonema of Pregnancy Addiction
There are women who incessantly get pregnant. They already have children to care for; however, these women believe in having yet more and more children. Psychologists and psychiatrists call this need "pregnancy addiction". According to these psychologists and psychiatrists, the constant need to get pregnant is much as addiction as other types of addiction. Psychiatrists further maintain that the constant need to get pregnancy is a mental disorder.
There are mothers who are so in love with being pregnant and having children that they often neglect the children they have already have. Mothers having an obsession with pregnancy do so to fill a void in their lives. These women often do not have a job, friends, hobbies, and/or an outside life. They often real lonely and believe that being consistently pregnant fills this loneliness and void.
Mothers who continuously get pregnant in order to feel useful and worthwhile. These women believe that they are nothing without children. These women further assert that they feel more feminine and womanly when they are pregnant. Other women are obsessed with being pregnant because they receive adulation and are stars for the moment. They feel as if they are the centers of the universe.
However, many women continuously become pregnant as an excuse not to pursue other interests such as a job, career, and/or further education. There are many women who do not want to interface with the outside world which they perceive as threatening and foreboding. They are comfortable being in the domestic sphere and they continuously get pregnant in order to avoid interfacing with the outside world.
There are some women who incessantly become pregnant to salvage their marriages. They contend that their husbands will never leave a mother with lots of children. They further believe that being having children will cement their marriages. There are women who keep getting pregnant to avoid the empty nest syndrome which means that they have to interface with their husbands more. These women are afraid to be alone with their husbands so they keep getting pregnant in order to have children whom they believe will act as buffers between them and their husbands.
Keith Ablow, M.D., a Boston psychiatrist, maintains that women who obsessed with being pregnant, often have underlying problems and they are often insecure. Dr. Ablow further asserted that they have the need to continuously get pregnant because of deep emotional and psychological issues i.e. whether it is dependency needs, the need for attention and adoraton, and to avoid certain problems that they have.
There are women who continuously get pregnant because it is an emotional rush to them. Pregnancy releases ocytoxin, a feel good hormone. When women are pregnant, they have health glow and appearance. There are many women who remark that they feel so good being pregnant; however, when the baby is born, they lose this feeling. They often wish to capture this feeling and do so by repeatedly becoming pregnant.
There are women who view pregnancy as an end all. They are in love with being pregnant, however, when the baby is born, it is often too much for these women to handle. There are women who are in love with the theoretical idea of pregnancy and the novelty of newborns. However, when the newborn becomes a toddler, they tire of him/her and want to get pregnant again and have another newborn, often neglecting the children they already have.
In conclusion, there are mothers who have an addiction to pregnancy. Many psychologists and psychiatrists classified this as a mental illness. There are reasons for this malady. Many women habitually become pregnant because of the attention and adulation they receive from others. They feel as if they are stars and goddesses for the moment.
There are mothers who continuously get pregnant to feel a sense of self-worth and to feel useful. These are still other women who only feel womanly and feminine when they are continuously pregnant. Many women become habitually pregnant to fill a void in their lives. These women often have neither careers nor other outside interests and they sublimate all this energy to becoming pregnant repeatedly.
Many women use the issue of being constantly pregnant to avoid the the "big and bad" outside world, feeling more comfortable and secure within the domestic sphere. There are many women who repeatedly get pregnant in order to hold their marriages together and to avoid the empty nest syndrome. Other women are obsessed with being pregnant because it makes them feel good.
There are some mothers who are in love with the idea of being pregnant and having newborns. However, when the newborn becomes a toddler, the novelty wears off and the mother loses the high and often becomes pregnant again with detererious effects on her already existing children. Yes, these women do have a verifiable addiction. Furthermore, they have a mental illness but they do not know it. Children are treasured individualized human beings to be cherised and loved. They are not collectible items! Women who have a pregnancy addition should seek psychiatric treatment for this is a sickness as any other.
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My sister is in her forties and she's been pregnant 6 times in the last 5 years (2 were miscarriages). Her husband can't hold down a job. Before she had their first child my other sister mentioned that she actually paid his child support a few times for his child from an earlier marriage. She has worked full time throughout all her pregnancies, taking 3 months maternity leave for each one. Her husband "takes care" of the children, although it seems like they're not being taken care of very well. The oldest wasn't toilet trained until he was five years old. I don't know what to make of all of this. She is college educated (notre dame). The only thing I can think it is is that my mother always treated her like everything she did was perfect. I feel like her marrying this deadbeat makes her feel perfect in comparison and maybe all the attention she gets when she's pregnant makes her feel "perfect." It's like she's addicted to praise, even if it's guilt-inspired. Does anyone have any feedback on all of this?
I know a women who is on her seventh baby. She has a 5 month old and has just announced that she is 10 weeks.. She surrounds herself with people who run around after her... While I stayed in her house I was constantly in demand from her other children who were desperate for attention and affection. I was seeing her husbands friend who lives with them and when he mentioned the idea of my becoming pregnant though said in jest she immediately set about sabotaging our relationship. I believe because she could not bear sharing the lime light! The babies as you say are a means to gaining attention. She is a very dominant women but her other children are more likely to be shouted at than cuddled, she is not mean exactly but too busy for them.
Her husband this year went and had a baby with another women whom he has now abandoned. She may be on her seventh but he in on his ninth!
I had likened it to Münchhausen myself as the babies are a way of making her the constant centre of attention! Took me ages to find find any reference to this as a disorder on line! I guess women can knock em out one after another and everyone is frightened to say it is anything other than natural! It's not natural to have so many children when you don't have time for the older ones.. How will the baby she has now fare, he will be little over a year when her arms become occupied with the new one! :(
I have never met a woman with such psychological needs. An eye-opening issue for me. Interesting hub.
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I've definitely met women like this...I've also met women who constantly get pregnant to get out of working or doing things for their own family. Sad, really.
The pathological need to over-breed...interesting. If it's hereditary, we're in trouble!











joe 9 months ago
Stupid